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Sing Your Own Song

2025-08-13T13:12:34-05:00

In today’s media saturated environment, how do you handle an unmediated moment when you're asked to talk about yourself? To share some information that cannot be found otherwise except by talking to you?  No texting, no emailing, Instagram photos, curated profile, or timely post.  On the spot, in real time; just you and your listener(s). You need a distinctive response at the ready. So why resort to the usual information that is not distinctive at all and makes you sound like everybody else (education, experience, hobbies, etc.)?  Though a method called StoryPathing™, I help clients learn how to introduce [...]

Sing Your Own Song2025-08-13T13:12:34-05:00

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2025-05-27T16:06:23-05:00

Flash! Although they may behave according to algorithms, people themselves are not algorithms.  For this reason and because business is ultimately people, interpersonal communication is a distinctive value-added to any business. In partnership with the Narrative Research Group and using a method called StoryPathing™, I work with clients to refine interpersonal communication skills that enrich both work and the work environment and help to navigate the professional ecosystem with authenticity.

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The Is-ness of Business

2025-05-26T12:59:59-05:00

The Is-ness of Business Your business is business, and it's also your life—your 'life-li-hood'.  My business is ‘is-ness’; more specifically, the ‘I’ in ‘is-ness’.  It represents that unique personal dimension as part of what you do.  The 'I' in business gets overlooked in all the ‘busy-ness’ involved in a business.  Despite the pervasive use of technology, business still boils down to relationships between people.  So how does the ‘I’ of your business inform the way you interact with customers, prospects, clients and co-workers?  How do you put who you are into what you do?  Easier said than done!  I’m not [...]

The Is-ness of Business2025-05-26T12:59:59-05:00

Rejection Dejection

2025-05-23T11:51:44-05:00

Rejection Dejection https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/15/opinion/rejection-college-youth.html?smid=url-share David Brooks’ column (the link is posted above for those interested), published recently in the New York Times, is a sobering reflection on the dilemma of some of our youth who are insistently asked to ‘put themselves out there’ only to experience rejection just as insistently.  The myth of Sisyphus who was consigned eternally to roll a boulder up a hill only to have it roll back down, comes to mind; an ageless image of frustration, futility and failure.  Another mythological character comes to mind as well:  Procrustes, who subscribed to the ‘one size fits all’ model.  [...]

Rejection Dejection2025-05-23T11:51:44-05:00

‘Strengths & Weaknesses’ Doesn’t Capture the Nuances of Interaction & Synergy

2025-05-23T11:13:45-05:00

'Strengths & Weaknesses' Doesn't Capture the Nuances of Interaction & Synergy An acquaintance who heads a department at a small company was talking to me the other day.  Her department had recently experienced turn over and she mentioned the toll in time/energy/attention that meetings and email chains required just to integrate her team.  It’s challenging for a group to work together effectively, particularly when, as my friend shared with me, the only data collected on the new hires relevant to collaboration was the boilerplate ‘strengths & weaknesses’ questionnaire.  That information too may be available only to someone in HR [...]

‘Strengths & Weaknesses’ Doesn’t Capture the Nuances of Interaction & Synergy2025-05-23T11:13:45-05:00

‘Well, How Did You Get Here?’ — Not a Rhetorical Question!

2025-04-30T15:31:28-05:00

I was recently listening to the Talking Heads’ song ‘Once in a Lifetime’.  At one point, the lead singer David Byrne prominently asks himself, ‘Well, how did I get here?’  This is a question we all may ask ourselves rhetorically once in a while, and we may not know the answer, at least in the terms that Byrne poses it.  It got me to thinking, though:  there are situations in the professional ecosystem (e.g., networking, interviewing, casual conversation) in which someone does ask, ‘Well, how did you get here?’.  And it’s critical to have a response at the ready that [...]

‘Well, How Did You Get Here?’ — Not a Rhetorical Question!2025-04-30T15:31:28-05:00

My Story Vault: The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning

2025-05-23T14:06:19-05:00

My Story Vault:  The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ION1L9KaL3XGhSZnpooB8 This podcast of a conversation between Dr. Dennis Rebelo and the jazz saxophonist (actually a multi-instrumentalist) Daniel Bennett is a real treat!  These two met one another by chance 10 years ago or more when Rebelo showed up at one of Bennett’s shows.  They developed a friendship over the years and their camaraderie is apparent in the hour plus of their back and forth.  Bennett is a working (a lot!) musician, but his story, as Rebelo guides him with questions to tell it, is not so much a [...]

My Story Vault: The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning2025-05-23T14:06:19-05:00

StoryPathing: An Internal GPS

2025-04-16T13:10:38-05:00

Think of your skill in StoryPathing™ as a kind of GPS.  But rather than guiding you to whatever your next may be from where you are, it guides from WHO you are.  You discern with clarity and are equipped to share, with evidence, your competencies and motivations over time.  Your audience meanwhile can orient itself to how your present and what's next intersect in the present moment.  Gain perspective, confidence and direction about the next step, whether you are in transition educationally or professionally, by learning how to know and show who you really are with the StoryPathing™ methodology.  Curious?  Interested?  [...]

StoryPathing: An Internal GPS2025-04-16T13:10:38-05:00
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