Sing Your Own Song

2025-08-13T13:12:34-05:00

In today’s media saturated environment, how do you handle an unmediated moment when you're asked to talk about yourself? To share some information that cannot be found otherwise except by talking to you?  No texting, no emailing, Instagram photos, curated profile, or timely post.  On the spot, in real time; just you and your listener(s). You need a distinctive response at the ready. So why resort to the usual information that is not distinctive at all and makes you sound like everybody else (education, experience, hobbies, etc.)?  Though a method called StoryPathing™, I help clients learn how to introduce [...]

Sing Your Own Song2025-08-13T13:12:34-05:00

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2025-05-27T16:06:23-05:00

Flash! Although they may behave according to algorithms, people themselves are not algorithms.  For this reason and because business is ultimately people, interpersonal communication is a distinctive value-added to any business. In partnership with the Narrative Research Group and using a method called StoryPathing™, I work with clients to refine interpersonal communication skills that enrich both work and the work environment and help to navigate the professional ecosystem with authenticity.

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The Is-ness of Business

2025-05-26T12:59:59-05:00

The Is-ness of Business Your business is business, and it's also your life—your 'life-li-hood'.  My business is ‘is-ness’; more specifically, the ‘I’ in ‘is-ness’.  It represents that unique personal dimension as part of what you do.  The 'I' in business gets overlooked in all the ‘busy-ness’ involved in a business.  Despite the pervasive use of technology, business still boils down to relationships between people.  So how does the ‘I’ of your business inform the way you interact with customers, prospects, clients and co-workers?  How do you put who you are into what you do?  Easier said than done!  I’m not [...]

The Is-ness of Business2025-05-26T12:59:59-05:00

Rejection Dejection

2025-05-23T11:51:44-05:00

Rejection Dejection https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/15/opinion/rejection-college-youth.html?smid=url-share David Brooks’ column (the link is posted above for those interested), published recently in the New York Times, is a sobering reflection on the dilemma of some of our youth who are insistently asked to ‘put themselves out there’ only to experience rejection just as insistently.  The myth of Sisyphus who was consigned eternally to roll a boulder up a hill only to have it roll back down, comes to mind; an ageless image of frustration, futility and failure.  Another mythological character comes to mind as well:  Procrustes, who subscribed to the ‘one size fits all’ model.  [...]

Rejection Dejection2025-05-23T11:51:44-05:00

My Story Vault: The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning

2025-05-23T14:06:19-05:00

My Story Vault:  The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ION1L9KaL3XGhSZnpooB8 This podcast of a conversation between Dr. Dennis Rebelo and the jazz saxophonist (actually a multi-instrumentalist) Daniel Bennett is a real treat!  These two met one another by chance 10 years ago or more when Rebelo showed up at one of Bennett’s shows.  They developed a friendship over the years and their camaraderie is apparent in the hour plus of their back and forth.  Bennett is a working (a lot!) musician, but his story, as Rebelo guides him with questions to tell it, is not so much a [...]

My Story Vault: The Daniel Bennett Story—Making Music, Making Meaning2025-05-23T14:06:19-05:00

Presentation: Rise Leadership Boot Camp

2023-08-19T18:41:41-05:00

Presentation:  Rise Leadership Boot Camp I had the privilege of delivering a presentation on 'Inspiring a Shared Vision' at the Rise Leadership Boot Camp held at Greater New Birth Church in Milwaukee. The audience consisted of current and aspiring business leaders, entrepreneurs, members in leadership positions at the church, and individuals interested in leadership development. I began by emphasizing the profound impact of motivating others and communicating a vision, as it lies at the core of effective leadership. I highlighted the importance of empathy, trust, mentorship, and pushing individuals to push the threshold of their own capabilities in order [...]

Presentation: Rise Leadership Boot Camp2023-08-19T18:41:41-05:00

Travel Story:  Rome Sabbatical

2023-08-30T22:52:59-05:00

Travel Story:  Rome Sabbatical I vividly remember the year I spent living and teaching in Rome. It was a life-changing experience that allowed me to immerse myself in a new culture and grow both personally and professionally. When I first arrived in Rome, I was filled with a mix of excitement and apprehension. I had limited skills in Italian, which made the initial adjustment challenging. However, I was determined to overcome the language barrier and make the most of my time in this captivating city. One of the first hurdles I had to conquer was mastering the public transit [...]

Travel Story:  Rome Sabbatical2023-08-30T22:52:59-05:00
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